{HMW} Reimagining Portion Sizes


Dear Reader

For too long, portion control has been about rigid rules—measuring food with your hand, avoiding the "clean plate club," or eating no more than a deck of cards of protein. These mantras come straight from diet culture, stripping us of our own agency and disconnecting us from the signals that actually matter: our body’s hunger and fullness cues.

It’s time to ditch those outdated rules and create your personal portion control blueprint.

Start by tuning into your hunger—don’t pre-decide how much to eat. Instead, check in with your hunger levels before, during, and after your meal.

Take a bit of everything if you have multiple options, and don’t be afraid to go back for more if you need it. There's no shame in finishing your plate, but there's also no pressure to clean it either.

Use sensory-specific satiety to check in midway through your meal. What do you still want more of? Giving yourself permission to eat more—without restriction—helps calm the nervous system and reinforces your trust in your own body.

Ultimately, it’s about trusting yourself to make the right choices based on your needs at that moment. Ready to ditch the rules and reclaim your plate? Let’s dive into your own intuitive eating journey.

Have it:

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Want it:

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Ingredient Spotlight:

Leeks

Leeks are like the laid-back cousin of onions—milder, sweeter, and just as versatile. They're perfect for when you want that subtle onion flavor without overpowering the dish. Plus, they're packed with vitamins A, C, and K, giving your immune system a little love.

Wondering how to cook them? Sauté them with garlic and olive oil for a simple side, or add them to soups for a silky, savory boost (potato-leek soup, anyone?). You can also roast them until caramelized for a sweet and smoky flavor, or toss them raw into salads for extra crunch. Just make sure to rinse them well—leeks love to hide dirt in their layers!

21 Leek Recipes to try this week

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What I'm Reading: The 7 1/2 Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle, by Stuart Turton

What I'm Watching: Getting excited for Silo Season 2!

What I'm Listening to: Isochronic Tones for an energy boost.

What I'm Eating: Sesame Carrot Soup with Crispy Chickpeas & Apricot Chutney

That's it for me this week. I hope everyone has a happy and healthy hump day!

Warmly,

Jenny

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